We can be uncomfortable

You do not have to have all of the answers.

You do not have to say the same things you used to.

You can change your mind (it's part of learning).

You do not have to make everyone else comfortable — it's impossible, and we can be uncomfortable.

You can be uncomfortable too.

You don't have to go "back to normal." It's ok if normal is different now.

You don't have to do any of this perfectly (see above re:impossible).

You don't need to carry a card to have empathy.

You don't have to win. It's not, after all, a game.

You don't have to believe that your efforts are enough in order for them to matter. They matter.

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